“Honesty is the best policy” is a very famous saying said by the Benjamin Franklin .Telling the truth or able to be trusted is called honesty .According to this proverb, aperson should be devoted and tell the truth always in his life while answering to anyconundrum .Honesty is just like a good weapon in the life which can benefit us throughmany advantages (Schluter ,1993) .It can be flourished naturally without any cost.Honesty gives us peace in the life whereaslies may destroy our lives by ruiningcorrelations.
A lier may lose our all benefits of being trustworthy in the heart of ourfriends, family members and other close ones. The best tool of success in life in honestyand a famous person said it as a base of the successful relationship . A dishonestperson always faces difficulty in making real and trustworthy friendship with anyone.People who are generally honest can be able to build better relationships . Dishonestpeople do not have courage of speaking truth to their dear ones .
They normally tell liesand face bad situations .On the other hand, speaking truth always strengthens ourcharacter and makes us strong. So honesty helps us a lot in many ways . Honesty is themost effective tool of protecting the relationships(Shakespeare).Telling lies just to savethe situation can make the condition even more worse than before. Saying truth alwayshelps us to strengthen the character. It also bring confidence within us. Good and badsituations always come in life but we should always speaking truth to our loved onesbecause it gives us joy and happiness. Being a good human being in the life is thequality of honest person .Honesty is not just about telling the truth. It’s about beinggenuine with yourself and others . Honesty gives us courage and enables us to developconsistency in how we present the facts. Honesty grind our perception and allows us tounderstand each and everything around us with transparency.Deception or lying is the opposite of honesty. Lying is really bad when a person is deceiving others or himself. When a person lies ,he misleads himself into believing whathe is saying. He start digging a assumptionary trench, that keeps getting bigger overtime. The person confuses himself, confuses others, loses credibility and puts himself inharm.When we lie to ourselves ,it is the worst type of lying practice . We start clowningaround with our concept of morality. Times that we lied in order to do something that wealways knew was wrong, we could feel it. The core of my heart rebelled against what Iwas mentally committing to do but when I look back on it, every time I lied , I was tryingto excuse my own weakness or to compensate for my mistakes. Trying to chase aimmoral desire only gives temporary pleasure. Lies we tell are often due to a lack ofeffort, positive morals or thoughts . This discouraging thought displays itself in ways thatwe can not possibly perceive at the time. It sets us back by delaying the pursuit of ourdreams. .Despite all the false promises , a lier reaches nowhere in the end. We stay rightin our own tracks or much worse, go backwards.People do not respect those who are not honest. Lying to someone for the first timewill definitely put the other person in doubt at us next for the next time . Therefore,lying does not give us benefits. However, finally the truth may be found out. The nextfact is that no one will trust us. Then come serious problems. For example, if i askquestions to my friend and get information which is not true. When I come to know thefact, I will not believe in my friend sayings for the next time. Dishonesty puts people indifficult situations. Problems start to happen when the truth comes out. For example,being dishonest in workplace causes coworkers to be not fond of working with us. Theseproblems are usually faced by dishonest people in the life .Honesty and seeking the truthis always the way to go. Honesty generate confidence, faith, willpower and represents usin the best way for others to see and witness our example. Honesty improves our exuberance. In an honesty experiment conducted by two University of Notre Dameprofessors, results showed that telling the truth is good for our health:” Mental and physical health of the person can be improved by speaking truth”,according to a Science of Honesty study.Respectable, admired behavior is always carried out with honesty. Speaking the truth andbacking it up with actions show respect for what’s right . Honesty is one of the keycomponents to character and one of the most admired traits of any successful, responsibleand credible person.Success can not quantified in terms of dollars, sales or number ofFacebook followers. Success is valued in terms of character, self-awareness, honesty,emotional intelligence and hard work(Rogers ,1964) . An emotionally intelligent personis a person of impeccable honor and honesty; someone who can recognize the quality ofhonesty in other people. The everyday transactions and business transactions of humanrelations must be carried out with a code of trust and honesty .At one time or another,you might find yourself in a situation that requires you to tell one or two lies to avoidtrouble. For some people, being honest is not that easy and such people might findthemselves lying almost every day. Honesty is the best policy because no matter howgood you are at telling lies, the truth will always come out(Field , 2001).Honestypenetrates through red tape, distraction, frustration and irresolution. Honesty gets youwhere you want to go faster because you live how you really feel. A person may not knowwhat he wants in the future ” but your intuition will give you a feel for what is in harmony with your heart(James ,1994).Honest aims in speech and action gains theattention and respect of others. These people become the ones that we not only want toinfluence but be influenced by. The company we keep and surround ourselves helps usto define our outlook .Honest aims in speech and action gains the attention and respectof others. These people become the ones that we not only want to influence but beinfluenced by. The company we keep and surround ourselves helps us to define ouroutlook on life. It lifts us to places we could not have arrived at entirely by our ownefforts.Honesty leads a person to achieve the goal. The person becomes fearless andpossesses clear formulation of everything on earth; and hence he becomes capable oftaking correct decision and giving flawless judgment in any matter. It is very importantfor us to understand the value of honesty otherwise social, economical balance will belost. One day we answer our life before God , only honesty is the way to succeed .